Just do it! Create something, someone.
Kids are only “expensive” if you are. They’ll be just like you. Dogs too to a lesser degree? Ready for the Sacred Mirror?! (Rhetorical. No Homos (Homo being a non gender specific revision of the human genus, which also includes Neanderthals and many other extinct species of hominid. H. sapiens is the only surviving species of the genus Homo.)
Smart? Kind? Motivated? Just breed for chrissake! Many of my friends have become lonely, sad old fux dying alone in their rent controlled apartment …
Community support will materialize if you learn how to ASK. Art, symphony, kite flying
No animals or children allowed after that lol
Seriously though kids. What is it you really desire? For your progeny? Dogs cannot tell your story!
As for me, the luckiest woman I know, am still awed by the beautiful creations that come from life, risk, planting a seed whether literal or metaporhical. Also, meeting new people, loving en forma humana. Loving not fearing the Pero (dogs). One of my grand kids was Born That Way. Fear of dogs seemed to be in her DNA 😦 NO MORE
So um, back to that Mexican American grandchild who always gets the inside joke. Esp. the morbid ones. Another Scorpio Dragon.
She I are ruling/plotting/controlling The Planet Earth! (ney UNIVERSE!) en Espanol these days. I know about 29 words, she 10X that.
Epiloge: Lil Dragon and I brought this lil Goddess in training towards loving dogs, along with a lot of help from @ScrappyTheSeniorDog (insty)
PSS She is smart,born savvy, witty and classy as heck just like My Mother Claire Florette Cubbage
Love Love Love lalalalala
My parents were sort of beatnick intellectuals who met in a bar in Chicago in 1960. They married shortly after, moved to California and had me in 1964. They supposedly named me “Justine” after the Lawrence Durrell novel, not the Marquis deSade of the same name. Regardless, my life imitates art, literature and poetry in many ways.
I am a licensed Minister who can perform weddings and funerals, with a background in journalism, sales, PR and education.
I personally answer all fan mail, or at least attempt to, on my preferred network OnlyFans https://OnlyFans.com/BaddGramma
There I keep it raw and real there and you will get an intimate look into my heart and mind.
I have appeared in print and classic adult films with stars like Codey Steele and Donny Rock. I have one film listed on IAFD.com (the IMDB of porn).
I am the founder of the FemDom Salon now a support group/munch for Sex Workers in the SF Bay Area. https://femdomsalon.wordpress.com
A former sales exec, journalist, publisher, entertainer and professional dominatrix I am semi-retired and live in the SF Bay Area with my an Umbrella Cockatoo I inherited when my husband Bob passed away in 2019. He and I were fairly active in the Bay Area Kink scene, but having only been together for a few years it was cut short way too soon.
My nickname was already BaddGramma in real life prior to my discovering BDSM and going pro. Still fits well. For the full story on how I got my name and the tattoo see (https://medium.com/@oaklandjustine/my-origin-story-how-badd-gramma-got-her-nickname-6eac1edb5b0d)
Note: I’m actually a pretty good grandmother from what I’m told. I now have eight grandchildren thanks to my three adult children (yes they know).
For me Sex work is about freedom of expression and dominion over one’s own body. It’s not just a way to make money, although that was my biggest motivator in the beginning. I feel strongly that sex work should be decriminalized and FOSTA/SESTA repealed. So, yes, I’m a whore on a mission. Just like the book/movie! Only I’m not nearly as self destructive as that Justine character. I’m actually an optimistic upbeat individual and people have told me many times that I’m fun to work with. I love collaborating with others. That’s when some of my best work happens.
Links:
https://open.spotify.com/show/7A7mlF2o7gMI9JRrpfslBs
https://www.youtube.com/@BaddGrammaGoddessJustine
https://oaklandjustine.wixsite.com/baddgrammas
https://femdomsalon.wordpress.com
https://baddgramma.wordpress.com
@Baddgramma10k on Twitter
@justinectz Instagram
@goddessjustinebg Instagram
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